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Dear Chara: What Men Wish Women Knew About Pressure, Performance, and Pride

Dear Chara: What Men Wish Women Knew About Pres...

Many men feel exactly what you just described but suffer in silence because they don’t feel safe admitting vulnerability. What you’re feeling isn’t weakness; it’s human capacity reaching its limit....

Dear Chara: What Men Wish Women Knew About Pres...

Many men feel exactly what you just described but suffer in silence because they don’t feel safe admitting vulnerability. What you’re feeling isn’t weakness; it’s human capacity reaching its limit....

Dear Chara: When the Bedroom Goes Silent — How Do We Reignite Desire After Distance?

Dear Chara: When the Bedroom Goes Silent — How ...

Reigniting desire doesn't have to cost a lot of money, but it will cost time and being intentional. I would start with fun and work your way to sex. If...

Dear Chara: When the Bedroom Goes Silent — How ...

Reigniting desire doesn't have to cost a lot of money, but it will cost time and being intentional. I would start with fun and work your way to sex. If...

Dear Chara: I Don't Feel Like I Am A Priority to My Husband, How Can I Change This?

Dear Chara: I Don't Feel Like I Am A Priority t...

Chara responds to a woman who is feeling unimportant in her marriage. This wife states she feels like she is not priority. This is a common challenge in marriages that...

Dear Chara: I Don't Feel Like I Am A Priority t...

Chara responds to a woman who is feeling unimportant in her marriage. This wife states she feels like she is not priority. This is a common challenge in marriages that...

Dear Chara: Is There Such A Thing As Financial Abuse In Marriage?

Dear Chara: Is There Such A Thing As Financial ...

In this week's blog, Chara responds to a wife who is having financial difficulties with her husband.  Here is a peek at what Chara is suggesting: You are not being...

Dear Chara: Is There Such A Thing As Financial ...

In this week's blog, Chara responds to a wife who is having financial difficulties with her husband.  Here is a peek at what Chara is suggesting: You are not being...

Dear Chara, My Spouse's Family Doesn't Like Me, What Should I Do?

Dear Chara, My Spouse's Family Doesn't Like Me,...

Chara responds to a wife who is having challenges with her husband's family.  Here is one real line from Chara's response: My short answer is they don't need to like...

Dear Chara, My Spouse's Family Doesn't Like Me,...

Chara responds to a wife who is having challenges with her husband's family.  Here is one real line from Chara's response: My short answer is they don't need to like...

Dear Chara, My Husband is So Mean, What Should I Do?

Dear Chara, My Husband is So Mean, What Should ...

Chara responds to a wife who is dealing with a mean husband.  Here is a snippet of what Chara shared: Some people are so far removed from God that they...

Dear Chara, My Husband is So Mean, What Should ...

Chara responds to a wife who is dealing with a mean husband.  Here is a snippet of what Chara shared: Some people are so far removed from God that they...