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Dear Chara: The Almost Relationship β€” Why Do They Keep Me Around but Never Commit? 12/4/2025

Dear Chara: The Almost Relationship β€” Why Do Th...

My final thoughts are when you stop accepting β€œalmost,” you make space for absolute. God doesn’t do halfway love, and neither should you. Walk away with your peace and your...

Dear Chara: The Almost Relationship β€” Why Do Th...

My final thoughts are when you stop accepting β€œalmost,” you make space for absolute. God doesn’t do halfway love, and neither should you. Walk away with your peace and your...

Dear Chara: Should I Stay or Go? When Faith and Feelings Pull in Opposite Directions 11/27/2025

Dear Chara: Should I Stay or Go? When Faith and...

Dear Chara, I’ve been dating someone for over a year. He’s kind, says he loves God, and treats me well β€” but there are red flags I can’t ignore. I...

Dear Chara: Should I Stay or Go? When Faith and...

Dear Chara, I’ve been dating someone for over a year. He’s kind, says he loves God, and treats me well β€” but there are red flags I can’t ignore. I...

Dear Chara: Dating After Divorce or Disappointment β€” How Do I Trust Again Without Losing Myself? 11/20/2025

Dear Chara: Dating After Divorce or Disappointm...

Dear Chara, I’ve been divorced for two years. I want to love again, but I’m scared. Every time someone gets close, I find reasons to pull away. Part of me...

Dear Chara: Dating After Divorce or Disappointm...

Dear Chara, I’ve been divorced for two years. I want to love again, but I’m scared. Every time someone gets close, I find reasons to pull away. Part of me...

Dear Chara: What Men Wish Women Knew About Pressure, Performance, and Pride

Dear Chara: What Men Wish Women Knew About Pres...

Many men feel exactly what you just described but suffer in silence because they don’t feel safe admitting vulnerability. What you’re feeling isn’t weakness; it’s human capacity reaching its limit....

Dear Chara: What Men Wish Women Knew About Pres...

Many men feel exactly what you just described but suffer in silence because they don’t feel safe admitting vulnerability. What you’re feeling isn’t weakness; it’s human capacity reaching its limit....

Dear Chara: When the Bedroom Goes Silent β€” How Do We Reignite Desire After Distance?

Dear Chara: When the Bedroom Goes Silent β€” How ...

Reigniting desire doesn't have to cost a lot of money, but it will cost time and being intentional. I would start with fun and work your way to sex. If...

Dear Chara: When the Bedroom Goes Silent β€” How ...

Reigniting desire doesn't have to cost a lot of money, but it will cost time and being intentional. I would start with fun and work your way to sex. If...

Dear Chara: I Don't Feel Like I Am A Priority to My Husband, How Can I Change This?

Dear Chara: I Don't Feel Like I Am A Priority t...

Chara responds to a woman who is feeling unimportant in her marriage. This wife states she feels like she is not priority. This is a common challenge in marriages that...

Dear Chara: I Don't Feel Like I Am A Priority t...

Chara responds to a woman who is feeling unimportant in her marriage. This wife states she feels like she is not priority. This is a common challenge in marriages that...