Dear Chara: Is It Okay to Use Bedroom Accessories as a Christian Wife? Response...
Yes ma’am, let’s talk about it because far too many wives feel shame about this. And I’m here to set you free, sis!
✨ 1️⃣ Let’s Debunk Some Myths Right Now.
Bedroom accessories don’t replace your husband — they enhance connection. Tools are meant to serve you, not take his place.
✨ 2️⃣ God’s Not a Prude, Honey.
Open up Song of Solomon sometime — those scriptures are straight up sensual poetry. God created passion, pleasure, and yes… playful ways to enjoy each other in marriage.
✨ 3️⃣ Tasteful Options Make It Easy to Start.
Simple things like massage candles, Euforia Pleasure Serum, or even a Double Feature c-ring (if y’all feeling adventurous) are beautiful ways to deepen intimacy without being over the top.
✨ 4️⃣ Talk to Your Husband About It.
Keep it light, fun, and prayerful. Let him know you want to explore new ways to keep things connected and exciting in your covenant.
Bottom line: God is glorified when your marriage bed is satisfied. 🔥💛
Besides this, I want you to try to see the bedroom accessories like you see things such as eyeglasses, which supplement eyesight; or ketchup, which enhances French fries. The accessories serve as either a supplement or an enhancer, neither of which are bad, shameful, or sinful. Also, remember that as long as you honor the specific restrictions spelled out in scripture when it comes to sex, then your marriage bed is undefiled. If it isn't perverse, and doesn't include other people, you may be good to add it. God restricted who, not the how for marriage!
Thanks for your amazing question. I pray this brings some solace to you and that you keep it Hot & Holy!
Blessings
Chara "You Hot & Holy Hype Woman (for Christian Marriages)"
PS:
🛏️ Chara’s Pick: Double Feature C-Ring
A flexible, dual-action couples ring designed to help you explore intimacy without guilt or pressure — just pleasure and connection.
✨ Why I Love It: This toy supports both of you, adds shared stimulation, and helps you keep things spicy while staying sanctified. A beautiful way to explore new things in a covenant-safe space.
