Dear Chara: How Can I Bring Up Low Libido Without Hurting His Ego? Response...

My Dear Sister, thank you for asking this with love in mind. That already makes you a queen in my book.

✨ 1️⃣ Timing and Tone Are Everything.
Don’t drop this convo mid-argument or when he’s stressed. Pick a calm, sweet moment when you both feel safe and open. If it helps, schedule a time for you both to sit and have a conversation. Some people like a 'heads up' about a conversation topic. If that is your spouse, schedule it and let him know you need to share with him about your libido. 

✨ 2️⃣ Focus on “Us,” Not “You or Me.”
Make it a team conversation. Try saying, “I’ve been missing feeling close to you in this way. How can we get that spark back together?” Be ready to hear things about his feelings and what he's missing too, because most men always need to share theirs too. Try not to take anything that is stated too personal. You both are there to listen to learn. 

✨ 3️⃣ Use Loving Language.
Phrases like “I love how we connect, and I want us to have more of those moments” work wonders.

✨ 4️⃣ Explore Solutions Together.
Look at intimacy-enhancing options like O Cream or Basic Instinct pheromone oil for playful, flirty ways to reignite passion without pressure.

You’re a queen for caring how you say it — and that heart will bless your marriage. 👑✨

You got this! All will be well and remember to say a prayer before you start your conversation. Ask God to lead you, speak through you, and to be with you both in the conversation. 

Blessings to you! Remember to Keep It Hot & Holy!

Chara "Your Hot & Holy Hype Woman (for Christian Marriages)"

PS:

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